"First, say to yourself what you would be; then do what you have to do."
Epictetus seems, from this pared down version of his Enchiridion, to have been as eminently rational as you would expect a Stoic to be. Yet, his collected wisdom for living a happy, purposeful existence is surprisingly humane and applicable to contemporary life without the patronizing tone or kitchy language of current self-management manuals. He's not your buddy, he's an ancient philosopher. His has some advice. Now get to work.
I disagree on a few points, of course, because I'm an emotional, artsy type and stoicism, while having many useful concepts, has always seemed like the scratched-up kid avoiding the alcohol swab. "But it will hurt!" Think of all the things being missed for the sake of avoiding pain. For instance, I would rather be unhappy and unbalanced from time to time than live without desire, anticipation, and passion. I think vulgarity is good for the spirit in nice, healthy doses. If that makes me a hedonist and mediocre, so be it. Actually, come to think of it, I dislike being considered mediocre if I don't follow the stoic path. And I have never, will never, appreciate any precept that insists I dispense with friends who aren't pursuing the same "virtuous" path. Just can't swing that one. Sorry.
Having said all that, there is great value in Epictetus' thoughts and in his insistence that a good life entails seeking the best version of yourself and that progress, not perfection, is the goal. It's also a reminder that yes, Greek and Roman authors often said it first, sometimes said it better, and still deserve to be read.
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ReplyDeleteI love this.